Once you stop fantasizing about that ideal version of yourself and start working towards becoming that person by setting your alarm clock earlier and actually going to the gym and actually volunteering at places and actually eating healthier and not procrastinating and working just a little bit harder you'll realize that it was so easy all along. Becoming your ideal self will only ever exist in your mind until you make the decision to work towards becoming that person. GET UP!! GET GOING!! it's now or never!! there is no light at the end of the tunnel!!l get that flashlight and pave your own path because no one else is going to do it for YOU!