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How to Reset Your Routine When You Feel Completely Unmotivated

Sometimes we reach a point where everything feels off. Sleep schedule breaks, productivity drops, motivation disappears, and suddenly days start passing without doing anything meaningful. The worst part is knowing what needs to be done but still not doing it. If you’re feeling stuck like this, don’t worry — it happens to everyone. The good news is you don’t need a dramatic life change to fix it. A few small resets can bring you back on track. Here are simple steps that actually help. 1. Fix sleep first Most routine problems begin with poor sleep. If you sleep at random times, wake up tired, or scroll your phone late at night, everything else becomes harder. Try this: Pick a fixed wake-up time. Sleep earlier gradually, not suddenly. Avoid phone use 30 minutes before bed. Even two or three days of good sleep improves motivation. 2. Start with one small task When motivation is low, big goals feel overwhelming. Instead of planning everything, do one simple task: Clean your d...
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Seeing Me: Why We All Just Want to Be Understood

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Become Your Ideal Self

Once you stop fantasizing about that ideal version of yourself and start working towards becoming that person by setting your alarm clock earlier and actually going to the gym and actually volunteering at places and actually eating healthier and not procrastinating and working just a little bit harder you'll realize that it was so easy all along. Becoming your ideal self will only ever exist in your mind until you make the decision to work towards becoming that person. GET UP!! GET GOING!! it's now or never!! there is no light at the end of the tunnel!!l get that flashlight and pave your own path because no one else is going to do it for YOU!

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                  "i cried tears you'll never see"

The Heartaches

I wanted so badly to lie down next to you on the couch, to wrap my arms around you and sleep. Not fuck, like in those movies. Not even have sex. Just sleep together in the most innocent sense of the phrase. But I lacked the courage and you had a boyfriend and I was gawky and you were gorgeous and I was hopelessly boring and you were endlessly fascinating. So I walked back to my room and collapsed on the bottomn bunk, thinking that if people were rain, I was drizzle and you were a hurricane. — (an excerpt from a book I'll never write) Image source: @unexpressedkid on Pinterest

Self-care/Mental Health Tips — Part 2

4. Cut the negative language/mindset — Anytime you have a negative thought find a reverse positive. Even saying "I'm not happy with how my hair looks but my ass looks great in these jeans" is better than saying "I look awful today". Stop the constant internal bullying! think of it this way, if your best friend said the things you say to yourself how would you feel? YOU'RE your OWN best friend, so cut the shit! compliment yourself like you do your best friend. Complimenting myself and finding things I find beautiful on my own body even once a day has increased my confident exponentially. A negative language towards yourself leads to a negative mindset. 5. Get outside, stay out of bed — Laying in bed is the best thing ever, I know, but it can be so easy to get in there and never get out. This is my biggest bad habit.  I feel more productive even just sitting on the couch. My bed is like a black hole of lost motivation. Go outs...

Self-care/ Mental Health tips — Part 1

1. Create a self-care routine with motivation — By giving yourself some type of reward to wash your face, brush your teeth and shower, taking care of your body, such as only watching your favorite tv show afterwards or getting a scoop of icecream or two, will feel a bit easier to accomplish the tasks that seem simple but can be terribly hard, especially if you suffer from depression. I've learned that combining things into one task also makes it easier, such as once you get in the shower, do everything. Wash your face, brush your teeth, shave, all in the shower. It makes  self-care so much easier.  2. Keep your room clean —  I know it sounds too basic and I also know how hard this is but trust me this contributes to as much as 65% to your mood. I’m absolutely awful at it, even in the summer but it really makes the biggest difference. Coming home to a mess when your life is already stressful and messy enough just makes things worse. I kno...